Woman’s day is around the corner and in celebration of this day it is time for reflection on how women have evolved throughout the past few decades.

In 1955 a magazine called Housekeeping Monthly printed an article with suggestions on how to be a good wife. It makes interesting reading and, for some the read is quite humorous. The article bullet-points “duties” which, in 1955, were appropriate for any stay at home mother or wife.

Women have in the past decade become, successful, independent businesswomen who spearhead top corporate companies as well as managing to still be mothers, wives, lovers, daughters and sisters. Multi-tasking has taken on a whole new meaning for the modern-day women and it’s a far-cry from juggling what to do first – the washing, feeding the dog, checking on emails or helping the children with homework.

At Forum Homini, we have had a good giggle whilst reading the article and have deliberated about how far women have evolved, so much so that we think, that soon, there will be an article placed in a magazine and headed “The good husband’s guide”… well, here’s hoping in any case.

We invite you to read through the 1955 article and send us your comments, we would love to hear what your feedback is, and ladies, do try keep the profanities to a limit (if possible)!

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• Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
• Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
• Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
• Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives.
• Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper etc. and then run a dustcloth over the tables.
• Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction
• Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimise all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.
• Be happy to see him.
• Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
• Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
• Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.
• Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.

• Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.
• Don’t complain if he’s home late for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
• Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
• Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
• Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
• A good wife always knows her place.